Weekly Musings: We all have the same 168 hours in a week. Spend yours wisely.

Time Management = Successful Life

Time Management = Successful Life

I was reading an article in Fortune magazine about Jim Haslam, the guy that started the Pilot Truck Stops (there’s one right in Milford).  He started post Korean War and now has 496 outlets around the country and they produce $30 billion in sales.

He explains how he got started and says, “A station became available in Gate City, Va and we bought it for $6,000.  It did well from the start, so we were lucky.”  It’s interesting to me that he credits luck for his success.  In fact, a lot of successful people do that.  In my opinion, it’s never luck.  In Mr. Haslam’s case, he goes on to explain how they pick a location, how they run their business and what they focus on.  These are the reasons for his success, not luck.

So, if it’s not luck, what is it?  I argue that it starts with a desire to want to improve your life.  We all have 168 hours in the week.  Time is the great equalizer.  President Obama, Madonna and Michael Jordan all have the same 168 hours a week that you have.   Successful people (however you define success) have made a decision to use their 168 hours more effectively and efficiently than others.  The Department of Labor Statistics conducts a study called the American Time Use Survey, where people keep a diary of what they do in six minute intervals.  You know what they found out?  American’s lie!  We are not as busy as we say, we don’t work as hard as we say, and we waste an incredible amount of time on television, Facebook, Youtube, etc.  Successful people only spend time on things that move their life’s goals forward.

So, I ask you, how do you spend your time?  If you really want to know, get a notebook and track what you do every six minutes for a week.  Be as specific as possible.  Don’t just write down “work” from 8-5pm.  Write down what you are doing at work.  If one of your life’s goals is to improve your career, then you need to pull the wasted time out of your day at work too.  Once you’re done, categorize how you’ve spent your time and see how much of your time is spent doing meaningful things that fit your life goals and how much time you just waste.  I guarantee it will be eye opening.  I guarantee that you can remove some “junk activities” and find time to learn to play guitar, volunteer, get in shape or even start a college degree.

As Laura Vanderkam in the book, “168 Hours” says, “The fact that we can make such choices [on how to use our time] makes us incredibly blessed.  This is not true in parts of the world where people spend 6 hours a day fetching water.  Chances are you live in an abundant, educated, free society.  The truth is, in such a society, there is already plenty of time for raising kids while running a business, for working, teaching and training for a triathlon, or for whatever brings joy and meaning to your life.”

I am currently tracking my time in six minute intervals.  I feel like time management is one of my strong suits, but I could be even better at it.  If you are interested in seeing what I’m doing, just ask.  I’d love to share it with you and I encourage you to do the same thing!

If nothing else, just try to catch yourself when you say, “I don’t have enough time to do x,y,x.”  In a free society, you do have enough time, you are just choosing to spend your time elsewhere, and most likely on things that don’t fulfill you (like Facebook, the internet, email, etc).

Thanks!  Have a great, meaningful day!  Kindly,  Jill Merriam

PS:  Thanks, as always for living our mission statement, “we are solution providers and not product pushers.  We believe everyone deserves to drive at nicer, newer car.  Key Hyundai wants to keep your car fun and safe to drive for as long as you wish to drive it.”

 

 

 

Weekly Musings: Positive Coaching Alliance and the Work at Key Hyundai

 

Improve skills & winning follows

Improve skills & winning follows

My husband, Rob, reinforced an important lesson for me last week.  He is a baseball fanatic.  He’s coaching my son, Brady’s AAA Little League team this year.  The West Hartford Little League subscribes to something called Positive Coaching Alliance. Positive Coaching Alliance is a national nonprofit developing “Better Athletes, Better People” by working to provide all youth and high school athletes a positive, character-building youth sports experience.

I went to Rob’s parent’s meeting on Saturday.  He told all the parents, “Our goal is to improve our baseball skills and further our love for the game of baseball.  Our goal isn’t to win.  If we focus on improving our skills and having fun, the winning will happen.”   I was so proud for him and it made me feel so good to know that he’s having such a positive influence on Brady and his team.

It’s really the same message that we preach at Key Hyundai.  Follow our mission and have fun and results will follow.

So, I ask you two questions.  One, what are you doing each day to better your skills in your job?  Two, are you having fun?  If you can answer yes to both those questions, the results will surely follow.

Jeff and I are taking our kids on a Disney cruise this coming week.  This is the first time we’ve ever been able to get away together for a full week like this.  We are super excited!  Thanks for everything you do to support Key Hyundai.  Have a great week, thanks for holding down the fort, and I’m sure I’ll have lots of great Disney customer service stories to share when I get back!

Kindly, Jill Merriam

Dealer For the People R

 

PS:  Thanks for believing in our mission, “we are solution providers and not product pushers.   We believe everyone deserves to drive a nicer, newer car.  Key Hyundai wants to keep your car fun and safe to drive for as long as you wish to drive it.”

Weekly Musings: I Recommend Simon Sinek’s “Start with Why”

Simon Sinek is brilliant!

Simon Sinek is brilliant!

Hyundai recently mailed me three leadership books that they think are worth reading.  One of them caught my eye.  It’s called “Start with Why,” by Simon Sinek.  I saw a video on Youtube by Simon Sinek a few months ago and it was really interesting (you should Google it – well worth watching).  His goal is to build a world where people are inspired by the work they do.Here is a section from the book called “The Price You Pay for the Money You Make.”  This section reminded me of the work we’re doing and the mission we are spreading at Key Hyundai. In it, he talks about sales tactics that are manipulative; the opposite of what we preach at Key Hyundai.  Our industry is unfortunately known for deceptive sales tactics.  That’s why I’m even prouder of the work we’re doing!

“I cannot dispute that manipulations work.  Every one of them can indeed influence behavior and every one of them can help a company become quite successful.  But there are trade-offs.  Not a single one of them breeds loyalty.  Over the course of time, they cost more and more.  The gains are short-term.  And they increase the level of stress for both the buyer and the seller. 

Leadership requires people to stick with you through thick and thin.  Leadership is the ability to rally people not for a single event, but for years.  In business, leadership means that customers will continue to support your company even when you slip up.  If manipulation is the only strategy, what happens the next time a purchase decision is required? 

There is a big difference between repeat business and loyalty.  Repeat business is when people do business with you multiple times.  Loyalty is when people are willing to turn down a better product or a better price to continue doing business with you.  Loyal customers don’t even bother to research the competition or entertain other options.  Loyalty is not easily won. “ – Simon Sinek, “Start with Why”

So, here’s to each of us being leaders and creating loyalty through our mission:

We are solution providers and not product pushers.  We believe everyone deserves to drive a nicer, newer car.  We want to keep your car fun and safe to drive for as long as you wish to drive it.

Have a great weekend, Happy Easter and Happy Passover.  Here’s to some warm weather just over the horizon!

Kindly,

Jill Merriam

Dealer For the People R

Weekly Musings: What are your values? Do you stay true to them whether or not you’re being watched?

“Real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that nobody’s going to know whether you’ve done it or not,” anonymous.

We had our monthly sales meeting this week and I gave a presentation on how important it is to figure out our values and make sure you’re living them everyday.

Here is a brief summary of that meeting:

What are your values?  What’s important to you? What’s the highest expression of you that you want the world to know you by?  If you don’t know, it’s worthwhile taking 30 minutes and thinking about it.  I ask myself, “what do I want people to be saying at my eulogy 57 years from now (have to think positively, right?”

For me, my leading value is to be of service to others.  To help others learn, develop and grow.  When we were developing the Key Hyundai mission statement, I made sure it fit within my personal values:

“We are solution providers and not product pushers.  We believe everyone deserves to drive a nicer, newer car.  Key Hyundai wants to keep your car fun and safe to drive for as long as you wish to drive it.”

What that means is that it’s our obligation to help each and every customer by following the steps in the process the right way and doing everything we can to help them drive a nicer, newer car and service their car properly.  We should always think about the customer or a fellow employee and think about how we can be of service to them.  Through that, we get our needs met.

How many of you have ever thought, and be honest, “wow, she really goes overboard to take care of customers.  That customer pulled one over on her?”

For me, taking care of our customers is an extension and an expression of my role in this world.  And, if I get taken advantage of 10% of the time, so be it.  I can live with that.

I want each and every one of you to feel the same way.  I want you to feel like every single day, whether someone is watching or not, you are staying true to your values.

As always, thanks for everything you do.  I am in awe of how you’ve built this culture in dealership every single day.

Kindly,

Jill Merriam

Dealer For the People (R)

 

Weekly Musings: What Does Leadership by Coaching Mean to You? (Part 2)

A customer recently asked me how we use Studer’s Pillars of Excellence to provide amazing customer experiences.  Here is my unedited response to him:

I have to admit, I have never heard of Studer’s Pillars of Excellence.  However, we do have constant focus on the five areas laid out in them.   We base everything we do on our mission and vision, “we are solution providers and not product pushers.  We believe everyone deserves to drive a nicer, newer car.”  And, in service our mission statement is, “Key Hyundai wants to keep your car fun and safe to drive for as long as you wish to drive it.”

Our processes have been designed around the mission statement and not the other way around.  And, it starts with me.  I believe so strongly in our mission statement.  The process to buy a car is much more daunting than it should be.  My goal is to demystify the process.   I preach the mission statement in almost every employee interaction.  We always use the mission statement when praising an employee.

We believe in a coaching environment.  That term is overused, for sure, but there’s no better way to say it.  In a coaching environment, we recognize that it takes constant reinforcement of our beliefs, our processes, and our skills in order to provide the products and services our customers deserve.  I think one huge mistake company’s use is that they put a system in place and then believe that they are done.  The reality is, you can’t stay in a steady state.  The laws of motion say that you will always be moving forward or backward.  If someone isn’t guiding you forward, the likelihood is that you’ll start to fall backward.  I even use a professional business coach to help push me forward.  I talk to him weekly.

I always use the example of a professional athlete. The higher performing the athlete is, the higher-powered coaching they have.  Every professional baseball player takes batting practice before every game.  They never say, “I’m at my peak, I’m going to stop practicing.”  Yet, we hire our front line people, whether it’s sales people for us, or front desk help for you, give them a bit of training, throw them into jobs with the public (who are getting more and more unreasonable) and expect them to peak perform all the time.  It’s a losing formula.  We need to be in an environment of constant training.  And, that training has to incorporate the why they are doing what they are doing and just how important their jobs are to the company’s mission and vision.

In every opportunity I have to praise an employee, whether in a larger setting, via email or one-on-one, I always reference the “why”.  An example is, “Bob, I bumped into Mrs. Smith in the waiting room.  She was raving about you.  That made me so proud because Mrs. Smith lost her husband last year and the fact that she feels so comfortable coming to you for her car servicing needs takes a huge amount of worry off of her.  Keep up the great work. “  It goes back to Maslow’s Hierarchy, after you get above the poverty line, money is not the only driving factor in an employee’s happiness.  The closer we can get to figuring out their driving factor, the happier they will be and the better service they will perform.

The other thing that is very important to us is to keep our employees “in the know.”  Whenever we poll them about what is demotivating to them, they say it’s when they aren’t “in the know” about what’s going on.  They can’t always define what that means but they know when they feel out of the loop.  I can only imagine that this is even more important in a large company.  So, we do a couple of things to help with this.  First, we use a leadership model where I make sure that me and my direct reports are:  1.  Open (we share our personal successes and challenges with our employees), 2.  Polite, and 3. Autocratic (we understand the buck stops with us and we have to be the final decision maker.).  People want to know that you, as the leader, are a human being and not just a talking head.  Second, I write a weekly letter to our employees and post it online at:  http://www.jillmerriam360.com.  And, third, we make sure each employee is involved in an all hands departmental meeting at least quarterly.  I also have a “family breakfast” with all the managers (not just my direct reports) every other week at a diner.  There is no agenda.  Just to have breakfast and catch up on our lives.

Finally, when it comes to customer service, the buck stops with me.  Each of our employees and our customers know it.  That creates an environment of accountability because no one wants his or her customer to get as far as me.  Every single customer has access to me via my personal assistant, Krista.  Krista receives and handles every customer complaint that the company gets.  She can handle 75% of them without me.  But, the 25% that she can’t, I get involved in and we solve.  We answer and address all complaints, no matter how big they are or how petty or ridiculous they are.

Here is a great blog post by Seth Godin (http://www.sethgodin.com) that explains why this is so important:

Customers who break things by Seth Godin

2% of your customers don’t get it. They won’t read the instructions, they’ll use the wrong handle, they’ll ignore the warning about using IE6. They will blame you for giving them a virus or will change the recipe even though you ask them not to.

And not only that, they’ll blame you when things go wrong.

If you do a very, very good job of design and UX and process analysis, you can lower this number to 1%.

But then what?

The thing is, blaming this group for getting it wrong helps no one. They don’t want to be blamed, and they’re not going to learn. 

The other challenge, of course, is that the 1% keep changing. If they were always the same people, you could happily fire them. But there’s no way to know in advance who’s going to get it wrong.

If you’re going to be in a mass market business, you have no choice to but to accept that this group exists. And to embrace them. Not to blame them, but to love them. Successful businesses have the resilience to make it easy for them to recover. To make it easy for these people to find you and to blame you and to get the help they need.

Sure, whittle down the number. But the ones who are left? They’re part of the deal.

Lastly, we have to always balance the leadership, mission and vision with financial results.  We have very strict financial metrics laid out and all the managers know that they need to stay within them.  We track everything in a scorecard and we review them daily.  I am a financial analyst by education and training.  I always say, “the data will set you free.”  The answers can always be found in the data.  The solution may be somewhere else, but the answer to what’s working and what’s not working is always in the data.  We always say that we know the processes are working well and the training is happening effectively, when our financial metrics steady out.   If the company is not financial healthy, we cannot provide the tools to our employees, nor take care of our customers the way we want to.

 

Weekly Musings: Wow, Our Mission and Vision are Taking Hold (Part 1)

Dear Fellow Solution Providers:

I got the most amazing email this week (see below).  I am so proud for Key Hyundai and had to share it!  In fact, I am so proud of it that I even shared it with my entire family this weekend.  Congratulations to everyone involved!

Thanks for continuing to live our mission and vision, “we are solution providers and not product pushers and we believe everyone deserves to drive a nicer, newer car.”  And, in service, “we want your car to be fun and safe to drive for as long as you wish to drive it.”

Have a great weekend!

Kindly,

Jill Merriam, Dealer For the People (R)

Hi Jill,

Last June, I purchased a 2013 Sonata from your Milford dealership. I Love It! What I loved more was your team’s approach towards service excellence and putting your customers first. That said, here at Yale New Haven Hospital one of the many committees I belong to is the Patient and Family Experience; a committee devoted to bettering ourselves at providing great customer service and quality care for each patient (customer) encounter.

So, having gone through the excellent experience of purchasing my vehicle (and great follow up service department care at the Milford location), we are asked to highlight a company of our choice that provides great customer service. Well, it is my turn and I have chosen Key Hyundai. I’ve read your bio which provides excellent info, but really what I am asking is, How do you infuse and incorporate Studer’s pillars of excellence into all of your employees with such great success?

A few lines regarding how you have accomplished this and maintained throughout the years would be most appreciated. I am presenting to our group next Thursday.

Sincerely,

Robert

Weekly Musings: Time Management in One Easy Step that You Can Do

Dear Solution Providers:

Living your life without a plan is like watching television with someone else holding the remote control.” – Peter Turla

One of my fascinations is time management.  I know that the key to living a fulfilling life is through time management.  Today I want to talk about a quick and easy time management tip that I use.

Maintain a running to do list.  Every day before you leave work, rewrite the list and organize the things you are going to get done the next day.

What will happen when you do this?

  1.  You will feel like you have more time.  Do you really?  Nope!  There are the same 24 hours in a day.  But, the flow of time will feel different.
  2. You will leave work clear headed.  Once you write something down, it gives your brain permission to remove it from its memory bank.  If it’s written down, you won’t pop up at 2am and think, “Shoot, I forgot to schedule a loaner car for Mr. Smith.”
  3. You will feel accomplished.  Keeping a running to do list allows you to check things off of it.  Checking things off is fun!

The expert in this is Manny Gonzalez, on the Key Hyundai finance team in Milford.  Manny doesn’t do anything without writing it on his yellow pad.  And, you know what; I have never received a complaint from a customer that Manny has dropped the ball on anything.  This small activity allows Manny to live our mission and vision:

We are solution providers and not product pushers.  We believe everyone deserves to drive a nicer, newer car.  At Key Hyundai, we want your car to be fun and safe to drive for as long as you wish to drive it.

Stay safe in the snow!

Kindly,

Jill Merriam

Dealer For the People R

PS:  You can maintain a paper journal with a running to do list.  Or, if you have a smart phone, a great app is called Evernote.  Check it out!